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    Last Modified: Apr 21, 2023 by Tara Gerner 13 Comments

    3 Baking Lessons I Learned the Hard Way

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    After the wasteful extravagance of Grace's first birthday party, I realized that two cakes were one too many. I would make just one cake for Allie's birthday.

    Grace asked me to make triple chocolate cake again. It sounded like a good idea, but I worried that it wouldn't make enough cake.

    I baked that cake for my dad's birthday, and it served five people. Granted, we ate like pigs because it was completely and utterly amazing, but still. Five people.

    Knowing that we'd be serving cake to at least 10 people, I decided to double the cake recipe and put it in a 9x13 pan. That seems reasonable since the original recipe is for a bundt pan, right?can I double a cake recipePin

    Wrong.

    The whole thing was a big mistake.

    It was a big, ugly, hairy monster of a mistake, in fact.

    3 Baking Lessons I Learned the Hard Way

    Can I double the cake recipe?

    NO! NO, YOU CAN'T! (Yelling intended)

    I thought one cake mix wouldn't be enough for the 9x13 pan, so I doubled the recipe: 2 cake mixes. 2 boxes of pudding. 4 cups of chocolate chips. 2 cups of sour cream. 2 cups of vegetable oil.

    The 9x13 pan overflowed in the oven, filling the oven and the kitchen with smoke.

    An oven filled with smoke bakes a cake that tastes like smoke.

    The cake was still jiggling like the ocean after the recommended 55 minutes at 350. The cake eventually baked for 90 minutes (and turned out not quite done in the center).

    During 90 minutes of baking, the bottom quarter-inch of the cake turned to charcoal. It was black and dry and crusty. When I was considering serving it to the party guests anyway, I tasted it and dry heaved.

    When the bottom quarter-inch of a cake burns, the whole cake tastes burnt. Smokey and burnt. Score!

    Lesson 1 - Don't double the cake recipe!

    When should I bake the cake?

    THE DAY BEFORE! Or the day before that. Don't do it on the morning of the party, even if the party isn't until afternoon.

    Allie won't drink a bottle unless it's warm, not room temperature and certainly not cold. It has to be noticeably warm, even now that she's one.

    On the other hand, Allie does not like her cake to be warm. She wouldn't eat - or even play in - the cake until it had cooled off.

    Also, if you frost a cake before it's completely cooled, the fabulous homemade butter cream frosting (that you also screwed up, see below) will melt and turn into a thin glaze and run off the cake, over the sides of the 9x13 pan, and onto the stove and counter.

    Or onto the other foods in the freezer, where you've put the cake in a feeble attempt to make the frosting stop running off.

    Lesson 2 - Bake the cake the day before you need it!

    What if I make the butter too soft?

    You can't make frosting with melted butter. If you soften the butter too long in the microwave, it will become melted butter.

    Put the butter back in the fridge and start over with a new stick.

    If you try to make frosting with melted butter, you will make a crumbly paste, reminiscent of the topping you put on apple crisp.

    Nothing will make that crumbly paste turn into frosting.

    If you continue to attempt to make frosting, you will end up with a semi-smooth chocolate frosting full of grit the size and texture of Nerds candy.

    Even if you put it in the freezer to firm up and whisk the heck out of it with your stand mixer.

    You'll still have gritty frosting that melts into a thin glaze and runs all over the floor.

    Lesson 3 - Don't try to make frosting with melted butter!

    This cake was a spectacular failure. Burnt, falling apart, tasting of smoke and charcoal, it was awful.

    Everyone ate it; some people had two pieces.

    They were just being nice.

    Everyone should have family like that.

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    1. Cindy says

      January 05, 2012 at 10:54 pm

      Oh, wow. I love ya, but I don't think I'd eat TWO pieces of that. One, sure. But not two. You have a wonderful family.

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    2. Feels Like Home Blog┞¢ says

      January 06, 2012 at 1:52 pm

      I know. Notice no one commented to say, "Oh come on. It wasn't that bad." You know they read my blog.

      Reply
    3. Hayley @ {Welcome to the Mouse House} says

      January 06, 2012 at 11:22 pm

      Hey there! Not sure if you remember me or not! Visiting you again from long ago! Love your blog!

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      • Feels Like Home Blog┞¢ says

        January 11, 2012 at 11:04 pm

        Thank you so much! 🙂 I hope you're well!

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    4. Darla says

      January 09, 2012 at 8:50 pm

      The only way to learn is to make a mistake. And usually it has to be a huge one in order for the lesson to be a life long learned one never to be made again. I've done some stuff that has left me shaking my head, my fist and wondering what in the heck i was thinking. (Which clearly I wasn't thinking!).

      LOL that some people ate two pieces! God love 'em!!!

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      • Feels Like Home Blog┞¢ says

        January 11, 2012 at 11:03 pm

        ha! You're exactly right. I will never make any of those mistakes again!

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    5. Robyn Wright of RobynsOnlineWorld.com says

      January 18, 2012 at 8:08 pm

      ROFL! Too funny - you should have taken a picture of that cake! I learned the bake the day before lesson when T was 2!

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    6. Felicia says

      June 22, 2012 at 9:08 am

      I have also learned the lesson of baking the day before... so glad you told me about the doubling thing! I definitely would of tried that!! Yikes!

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    7. Chanel says

      September 25, 2015 at 6:14 pm

      Funny post. But actually you could've doubled that recipe and successfully. Each box--tells you either 1-13Ô”9, 2-8 or 9 inch cake pans or 12 cupcakes. Sooooo...lol...not quite sure why you would try to stuff 2 boxes + additional ingredients---in the same size pan? Hilarious.

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      • Elle says

        January 07, 2017 at 7:38 am

        I know, right? Ridiculous.

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      • Dee says

        March 31, 2018 at 11:10 pm

        Right. It's all about volume. Seems the bundt pan volume would have been very similar to the 9x13?

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    8. Marcy says

      November 25, 2017 at 10:35 am

      I used to try eating cake that I'd made the same day, and would always think "Why doesn't this taste as good as the next day always does?" I found out the cake flavors "marry" by the following day.
      Sorry you had such a mess--just know that we've all had bad days in the kitchen!

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    9. Jen says

      June 28, 2023 at 8:48 pm

      Thank you, your honesty is awesome. I feel you. Glad to know someone has figured out the time when you just can’t make it better and it’s worth it to start again!

      Reply

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